June 27th, 2017

[podcast] Abiding in God’s Word with Elizabeth Foss #077

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This week’s conversation is with the lovely Elizabeth Foss, wife, mom, writer, and encourager of many. She shares about her newest project as founder and chief content director for Take Up & Read, a Scripture study designed for women. Elizabeth discusses her love of daily Bible reading and what motivated her to create this ministry. We also discuss the importance of female friendships and the role they play in our spiritual lives and formation.

I know you will love hearing all that Elizabeth has to share! And make sure you check out the Take Up & Read website to take part in this summer’s group study beginning July 8!

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Books by Elizabeth:

Consider the Lilies (accompanies this summer’s study group)
Small Steps for Catholic Moms (we wrote this one together!)
Real Learning: Education in the Heart of the the Home

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June 20th, 2017

[podcast] 10 Easy Ways to Add Movement to Your Days #076

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*** FIRST! To enter the lottery to be a part of the online Momnipotent study led by me, please fill out this form at Ascension Presents. I would love to do this study with YOU!***

This week we are talking about adding movement to your days and form the healthy habit of sitting LESS and moving more, even outside of your regular “workout” times. This doesn’t have to be complicated, and it can have amazing benefits for your health and well-being. Some of the simple ideas we discuss:

1. Take on a DIY project

2. Use a treadmill (or standing) desk

3. Play games with your kids

4. Be inefficient — with your parking, cleaning up, chores, etc.

5. Keep track of your movement

6. Set a timer to remind you to move

7. Walk after each meal

8. “Walk and Talk” or make sure you are moving while on the phone

9. Take on a 60 second challenge (plank, squats, whatever you want)

10. Walk faster! It feels great!

We also have feedback this week from a young listener Beth, from “Marcy” who received advice about feeling “touched out” a few weeks back, from David about hospitality, from Kim on teaching children to have a real relationship with God, from Mary about asking for things you would like to receive, and finally from Erica about her awesome moms’ group and their HIIT workouts they do while praying the Rosary.

WOW! Great feedback this week, keep it coming. I love hearing from you!

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SOME PLACES I WILL BE:

Troy, VT
I will be in Troy, VT for the 3rd annual Family Day Retreat on Saturday, June 24, 2017. There are talks and music, Eucharistic adoration and procession, and food and fun for people of all ages and all kinds of families. Check out all the details and register here!

RETREAT
The You’re Worth It! Retreat for Women
Find out more about bringing his unique event for women to your parish, group, or community. Read more and request more information here.

Or find out more about having me come speak at your parish or conference.

My newest book is available!
You’re Worth It! Change How You Feel About Yourself By Discovering How Jesus Feels About You

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June 13th, 2017

[podcast] Be Better at Hospitality #075

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*** FIRST! To enter the lottery to be a part of the online Momnipotent study led by me, please fill out this form at Ascension Presents. I would love to do this study with YOU!***

This episode was inspired by this great article: In Praise of ‘Scruffy Hospitality’

This week, we are talking about getting better at hospitality. This is a tough issue for so many women. We worry about our homes or our cooking skills or our children not being “good enough” for company. We stress about how to be the perfect hostess. But hospitality is such a gift to ourselves, to others, and to our communities, that we all should make a little effort to get better at doing it. I share some ideas for beginners and “pros” alike:

1) Just make yourself do it. A lot.
The only way to get more comfortable doing something is to do it a lot. Stop waiting for the “perfect” moment that will never come. Invite someone over this week! Make it a regular thing.

2) Start small.
If you are a newbie and stressing about how to host people, you don’t need to put on a fancy dinner party. You can have another couple over for a game night with snacks, or friends over for dessert and coffee.

3) Let others help.
Sometimes our prime gets in the way and we feel the need to show everyone how we can do everything when hosting an event. Part of community-building, however, is doing things cooperatively. Let others help with the food or with planning or with clean up. You can visit and enjoy each other’s company while working together.

4) Stay within your budget.
Hosting others will be a major stress if you break the budget every time you have someone over. No need to show off. Simple food and drinks, simple decorations for parties are all fine. Be reasonable about what you can afford to do, so you won’t wind up resenting your guests or regretting your event.

5) Don’t apologize.
When people come over and you spend the whole time apologizing for the state of your home, the behavior of your children, the quality of your food. or whatever is making you feel self-conscious. your guests are going to be uncomfortable. Focus on visiting with your guests and let go of the idea that everything needs to be “perfect.”

6) Pray for receptivity.
Receptivity and openness to others is a beautiful feminine gift. Ask for more of it, ask for the grace to be a gift to others with your focus on them and their needs, with your attention to the desires of others, with your interest in their thoughts and ideas. This is how people feel loved. Spend some real time getting to know your guests better and really connecting with them. They will remember your kindness and attention — not the food or the dust on your bookshelf!

I also share feedback from Barb Gilman (Barb in Nebraska on social media!) and Kim in Australia who asks about talking to your kids about unanswered prayers. Also, we hear from Melissa who shares a fun way to keep moving during kids’ baseball games.

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SOME PLACES I WILL BE:

Troy, VT
I will be in Troy, VT for the 3rd annual Family Day Retreat on Saturday, June 24, 2017. There are talks and music, Eucharistic adoration and procession, and food and fun for people of all ages and all kinds of families. Check out all the details and register here!

RETREAT
The You’re Worth It! Retreat for Women
Find out more about bringing his unique event for women to your parish, group, or community. Read more and request more information here.

Or find out more about having me come speak at your parish or conference.

My newest book is available!
You’re Worth It! Change How You Feel About Yourself By Discovering How Jesus Feels About You

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June 6th, 2017

[podcast] Plan Ahead for a Super Summer #074

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In this episode, we talk about ways to plan now (at least loosely make plans!) for a fun summer with your family. The tips I share are:

1. Change up your prayer life.
Summer is a great time to shift your focus and switch your prayer routines. Try something new! Maybe consider creating an outdoor prayer space to inspire you and your family members to pray more often during the summer months.

2. Visit a new place.
Summer provides an opportunity to explore new places together. Maybe a new park or a new hiking trail will be a fun adventure for you. Or maybe try a new library or museum. Relaxed routines provide us a chance to try new things that might be fun or inspiring.

3. Assign the chores!
This is so important. You do not want to end up the maidservant of all your solvency children this summer. Make a plan now (even a very basic plan) for how chores and regular work will get done on a daily or even weekly basis.

4. Have a schedule.
This is related to the chore assignments, but have at least a loose schedule of when certain things like meals, chores, quiet time, and exercise are happening on a day to day basis. A relaxed schedule can be fun for a bit, but we all need routine, and having a basic one in place can save your sanity in the long run.

5. Set a goal.
Whether it’s painting a room or tackling a work project, summer is a nice set chunk of time that you might consider spending working toward an important goal of yours. What do you want to have accomplished come September? Make a plan for it now!

6. Ask for others’ input.
Find out what your family would like to do during the summer. Make a master list for inspiration and enjoy crossing off fun things all summer long.

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SOME PLACES I WILL BE:

Laconia, NH
I am thrilled to be offering the You’re Worth It! retreat for women at my own home parish, St. Andre Bessette Parish in Laconia, NH, on Saturday, June 10, 2017. Get all the information and registration forms here.

Troy, VT
I will be in Troy, VT for the 3rd annual Family Day Retreat on Saturday, June 24, 2017. There are talks and music, Eucharistic adoration and procession, and food and fun for people of all ages and all kinds of families. Check out all the details and register here!

RETREAT
The You’re Worth It! Retreat for Women
Find out more about bringing his unique event for women to your parish, group, or community. Read more and request more information here.

Or find out more about having me come speak at your parish or conference.

My newest book is available!
You’re Worth It! Change How You Feel About Yourself By Discovering How Jesus Feels About You

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May 30th, 2017

[podcast] Stress Less #073

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This week, we are talking about stress and ways that we can reduce the amount of stress in our lives, even if we can’t always change the things that cause us stress. Did you know stress is bad for your health? It is! Let’s discuss these simple ways to handle everyday stress and take good care of ourselves, physically and emotionally.

1.Breathe.
Notice your thoughts & physical reactions to stressful situations. Reminding yourself to breathe slowly and deeply can stimulate your body to de-stress and bring your mind back to the basics. Try it! It really works. Deep breaths …

2. Clean (or do anything productive).
So much better than stress-eating is stress-cleaning. Do something that will make you feel productive and be release of energy that builds up when you are stressed. Clean bathroom, wash a car, organize a bookshelf. Whatever you need to do to occupy your mind and body while you are unable to do anything to change a stressful situation.

3. Move your body!
You already know this, but I must say it anyway. Regular exercise reduces stress. You don’t have to sign up for gym class, though. This can as simple as taking a daily walk, especially during times of extra stress in your life. Your body needs a release of that pent-up energy, and exercise is the best way to do that.

4. Find and use a relaxation trigger.
Brew a cup of your favorite tea, change into a comfortable sweatshirt, or sit in a favorite chair. Find something that normally triggers you to relax and then use it, especially when you are stressed, to tell your body “It’s ok to relax now.” This is so small and simple and yet it really works.

5. Get more sleep.
Everything feels worse when you don’t sleep enough. Everything. Sleep deprivation itself is a major cause of stress on our bodies. You may not be able to get a perfect night’s sleep every night, but all of us can take measures to better ensure we get the rest we need. Get yourself to bed earlier or take a quick nap in the afternoon. Find ways to sleep more and your stress levels will decrease.

6. Touch somebody.
Give yourself a dose of those feel-good. bonding and connecting hormones by giving someone a hug. Grab a kid and hug him or your spouse, or ask a friend for a hug. Physical touch is an important way we connect and feel connected with others. Make sure you take advantage of the touch-able moments in your life where you can express affection but also enjoy a little stress relief.

We also share some more feedback for “Marcy” from last week’s show. Marcy was feeling “touched out” with a new baby and was having trouble resounding to her husband’s needs for physical affection. Listeners Beth and David offer their helpful perspectives.

Also mentioned in this week’s episode:

Interval training: all about Tabata style workouts

The study of Tabata vs traditional cardio workouts

Interval timer app on iTunes

SUPPORT
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SOME PLACES I WILL BE:

Laconia, NH
I am thrilled to be offering the You’re Worth It! retreat for women at my own home parish, St. Andre Bessette Parish in Laconia, NH, on Saturday, June 10, 2017. Get all the information and registration forms here.

Troy, VT
I will be in Troy, VT for the 3rd annual Family Day Retreat on Saturday, June 24, 2017. There are talks and music, Eucharistic adoration and procession, and food and fun for people of all ages and all kinds of families. Check out all the details and register here!

RETREAT
The You’re Worth It! Retreat for Women
Find out more about bringing his unique event for women to your parish, group, or community. Read more and request more information here.

My newest book is available!
You’re Worth It! Change How You Feel About Yourself By Discovering How Jesus Feels About You

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May 24th, 2017

Danielle Bean Talks About Catholic Media

It was so fun to visit with the wonderful people at CatholicTV yesterday and to be a guest on their live morning show, This Is the Day. You can watch my interview right here!

May 23rd, 2017

[podcast] How to Handle Criticism #072

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This week, we are talking about ways to handle criticism, which is a tough topic because nobody likes to be criticized. When we receive negative feedback, our immediate reaction is often to reject the criticism or brood over it and get angry. These are not helpful responses, so I am suggesting some tips for how to handle criticism in a productive way:

1) Consider the source.
Is this someone whose opinion is important to you? Do you share values with them? Do you value their input? If not, then forget it, but if so, this is an invitation to deeper reflection.

2) Put it in perspective.
Is this one person’s negative opinion while 99 others have a positive opinion? Well then, it may not mean you need to be doing anything differently. There is always going to be someone who doesn’t like what we say or do, but that does not necessarily mean we need to change.

3) Make it an opportunity to learn and grow.
If you determine that the criticism you received is valid and important to consider, then you have a task before you to do just that. Take steps to change or amend your words and actions in accordance with the feedback you have received. Even if you determine that the criticism is not valid or valuable or relevant for you to take action on, you can still take the opportunity to learn to be open to others’ perspectives that are different from yours. You can grow in humility by not defending yourself or feeling like you have to explain everything until everybody loves you and accepts you. There is grace in accepting that not everyone will agree with you all the time.

4) MOVE THE HECK ON.
Once you have dealt with the criticism and responded to it appropriately, do not brood over it or ruminate over your hurt feelings and insecurity. life is too short for that! Learn what you can, grow in whatever you can, and then move the heck on!

We also share an email from listener “Marcy” who asks for advice on feeling “touched out” as a new mom, and listener Amy who was recently inspired to have a “late” Easter egg hunt with her kids to celebrate all 50 days of Easter. 🙂

SUPPORT
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SOME PLACES I WILL BE:

Boston, MA
I will be live on CatholicTV on Tuesday, May 23 at 10:30 am ET. You can watch live or any time on demand at: This Is The Day on CatholicTV

Laconia, NH
I am thrilled to be offering the You’re Worth It! retreat for women at my own home parish, St. Andre Bessette Parish in Laconia, NH, on Saturday, June 10, 2017. Get all the information and registration forms here.

Troy, VT
I will be in Troy, VT for the 3rd annual Family Day Retreat on Saturday, June 24, 2017. There are talks and music, Eucharistic adoration and procession, and food and fun for people of all ages and all kinds of families. Check out all the details and register here!

RETREAT
The You’re Worth It! Retreat for Women
Find out more about bringing his unique event for women to your parish, group, or community. Read more and request more information here.

My newest book is available!
You’re Worth It! Change How You Feel About Yourself By Discovering How Jesus Feels About You

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May 16th, 2017

[podcast] Big Life Changes With Haley Stewart #071

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This week, we have a special guest Haley Stewart joining us for an inspiring conversation about big life changes — from Protestantism to Catholicism, from single life to married life, from married life to parenting, and from working mom to at-home mom. Haley shares so beautifully about her own struggles and lessons she has learned along the way. I just know you are going to love this conversation!

Haley’s website
Haley on Facebook
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Haley’s podcasts, Fountains of Carrots and The Simple Show

We also share some excellent feedback from Mary Alice on cry room politics, Erica on meddling mother-in-laws, Lynn on encouragement for the podcast, and David about learning to love yourself.

SUPPORT
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RETREAT
The You’re Worth It! Retreat for Women
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My newest book is available!
You’re Worth It! Change How You Feel About Yourself By Discovering How Jesus Feels About You

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