This morning, I got up early and attended Mass by myself. As much as I like going to Mass en masse, I also like to go alone now and then — a distraction-free 60 minutes with Jesus can be a very good thing for a mom.
When I told Dan I would be going to a parish that is 30 minutes away, he said, “Are you sure you wouldn’t rather go to [parish that is only 10 minutes away but is not exactly a 'spiritual home' for us, if you know what I mean]?”
I told him the quiet 30 minute drive there and back was part of what I needed. But I don’t expect a dad to understand that.
And I guess I don’t expect a 4-year-old to get it either.
When I arrived home and Raphael noted his father and brothers preparing for a later Mass, he turned to me and asked, “Do l have to go to church today?”
“You can stay here with me if you want.”
The boy breathed an enormous sigh of relief as he sank into a chair.
“Oh, I am weally glad about that! Oh that is weally good!” he beamed.
But then quickly remembered himself.
“Uh … I mean that’s okay with me,” he added quickly before running off to play.
UPDATE: Annamarie now has enough sources — thanks for your input!
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A mother is the most important person on earth. She cannot claim the honor of having built Notre Dame Cathedral. She need not. She has built something more magnificent than any Cathedral -- a dwelling for an immortal soul, the tiny perfection of her baby's body.
-- Joseph Cardinal Mindszenty
We are not necessarily doubting that God will do the best for us; we are wondering how painful the best will turn out to be.
-- C.S. Lewis
Some mothers are kissing mothers and some are scolding mothers, but it is love just the same, and most mothers kiss and scold together.
-- Pearl S. Buck
Everything has its wonders, even darkness and silence, and I learn, whatever state I may be in, therein to be content. -- Helen Keller
Little things are indeed little, but to be faithful in little things is a great thing. -- Bl. Mother Teresa
The Christian ideal has not been tried and found wanting. It has been found difficult and left untried. -- G.K. Chesterton